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Go West, Young Man!

Today Jim and I did something I really couldn’t have imagined doing even a couple of years ago: we put D on a train that would take him away from us for the entire summer.

He was hired to be a backwoods ranger at a Boy Scout High Adventure ranch in the mountains of New Mexico, something he’s wanted to do since he visited that same ranch for the first time a few years ago. After applying but not getting an offer last year, he was over the moon when he got the great news this year. When he called to tell me, I could hear the unadulterated joy in his voice, and I was so happy for him.

The position for which he was hired includes spending two days hiking up into the mountains from base camp with a visiting troop, teaching them what they need to know for survival on the rest of their 7-10 day trek before leaving them early on the third morning to hike back to base camp, alone, to meet the next troop. (“Yikes, ALONE??” says his mother.) He was truly cut out to do this job. He is great with younger kids, and is a pro in camping situations. He amazes me with what he can do. He also knows what to do in case a bear approaches, which is good.

He will be living in a semi-permanent tent for two (with a tent-mate) at base camp and in his own one-man tent out in the backwoods, meaning he will not know the comfort of an actual mattress (and indoor plumbing) for TWO AND A HALF MONTHS. To me, this sounds like hell because my idea of roughing it is a cheap hotel with no cable TV, but to him, it’s pure heaven. (He obviously gets his love for the outdoors from his father, who is totally green with envy that he couldn’t go along.)

D will turn 20 in a couple of weeks, among his new friends and across the country from his family. It will be the first time we won’t be together for his birthday, and as much of a bummer that is, it’s really part of the circle of life and I’m buoyed by my excitement for the fantastic adventure he’ll create for himself this summer. I know this will be a life-changing experience for him, as were each of his two ten-day trips there as a Scout.

Still, taking him to the train station was a little bittersweet.

He was a little nervous, but more excited than anything.

He rearranged his backpack a bunch of times before he left. It holds, on the inside or outside, all of the stuff he needs for the entire summer. I told him he looked like one of those one-man bands with the huge bass drum and the cymbals.

We kept the mood light as we said goodbye. It was so weird, watching him walk away!

And then, he was gone.

I miss him already.

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  • houseofJules May 27, 2012, 8:21 pm

    Don’t make me cry again, ya jerk.

  • Toni May 27, 2012, 8:54 pm

    What a FABULOUS opportunity!!! But, oh, my heart!!

  • Mrs4444 May 27, 2012, 9:16 pm

    That’s crazy! Didn’t he just leave for kindergarten?! 🙂

    I suspect that Kyle will one day move far away (to a big city, or maybe even another country). Yeah, that circle-thing….it happens whether we like it or not.

    Looking forward to reading updates 🙂

  • Grandma W May 27, 2012, 10:00 pm

    He will do outstanding I’m sure. THAT’S OUR BOY!
    Grandma W

  • Cy May 27, 2012, 11:36 pm

    Oooh. That is a tough one. He’ll do great.

  • Sally May 28, 2012, 8:42 am

    You are a good mommy – hard as it is on you! Just think how great it will be when the train in coming rather than going! Come visit us and we’ll take care of you!

  • Tara R. May 28, 2012, 5:41 pm

    Good luck to D. He’ll be awesome.

    Hugs to you and Dad too, it’s tough turning the young’uns loose.

  • As Cape Cod Turns May 29, 2012, 6:15 am

    Definitely not my idea of a good time, but more power to him! He looks EXTREMELY happy!

  • Ally Bean May 29, 2012, 7:54 am

    Ditto what As Cape Cod Turns. Bet that he has a glorious time of it– and still is talking about this adventure when he’s 80 years old!

  • Patty May 29, 2012, 11:42 am

    Super impressive! WOW! Way to go D!

    Many hugs for you Momma 🙂

  • Lisa June 1, 2012, 7:06 am

    He’ll do fine but that first adventure off on their own (no matter how old they are) is always scary.

    • Melisa June 1, 2012, 3:57 pm

      Yep, we’re used to him being gone because of college but when you throw bears into the mix it’s a little different. 🙂 Still, very exciting!

  • lisa June 1, 2012, 7:33 am

    wow. that’s amazing. i can’t imagine sending my boy -16 – off…your heart must be thrilled, but slightly anxious! but what a great experience for him! good job mama!

    • Melisa June 1, 2012, 3:56 pm

      He’s so excited. We were really thrilled that he got this opportunity!

  • tracey June 1, 2012, 7:59 am

    Well, as a camp lover, I am also JEALOUS, but as a mother, I am weepy with you because OH MY GOD he’s 20 and grown up. Holy holy balls…

    Hope he has a BLAST. Hope you get a few letters from him this summer!

    • Melisa June 1, 2012, 3:54 pm

      Oh gosh, letters? No. He’ll be calling and texting from base camp! This is 2012! *snicker*

      He’s having a great time so far! yay!

  • Lisa - Hannemaniacs June 1, 2012, 9:18 am

    What an awesome opportunity! You must be so proud of him.

    But looking at my one year old and almost four year old boys I can’t imagine letting them go to college, let alone into the wilderness. I know I’ll get there, but it won’t be easy!

    • Melisa June 1, 2012, 3:56 pm

      Yep, you have a ways to go but it goes by really fast so try to enjoy! 🙂

  • ConnieFoggles June 2, 2012, 6:38 pm

    He must be well trained to get that kind of job. Congrats to him. And for you, hugs and love from one mom to another. This is what we raise them to do, but it hurts so much.